Uncertain?
I have decided to try a new technique.
There are a lot of times when I am uncertain about what to do, or if I should do something, or say something. And I don't know what to do.
Think of the smartest person you know. Then ask them the question. What would they tell you? I bet they would be honest with you, tell you what they think, and then leave the decision up to you.
Thats the way I should be looking at things. That way, even though I am the only one there, I will still have the opinion of someone I love and trust. And I will know what to do.
Thats not to say it will always be easy, but then you know you have thought it through first. Sometimes thats all it takes. I think a lot of the time I am uncertain about what to do, because I have not really thought about it. I am avoiding the subject. Even with myself. So then you are forced to think about it, and make a decision.
So thats what I am going to do.
There are a lot of times when I am uncertain about what to do, or if I should do something, or say something. And I don't know what to do.
Think of the smartest person you know. Then ask them the question. What would they tell you? I bet they would be honest with you, tell you what they think, and then leave the decision up to you.
Thats the way I should be looking at things. That way, even though I am the only one there, I will still have the opinion of someone I love and trust. And I will know what to do.
Thats not to say it will always be easy, but then you know you have thought it through first. Sometimes thats all it takes. I think a lot of the time I am uncertain about what to do, because I have not really thought about it. I am avoiding the subject. Even with myself. So then you are forced to think about it, and make a decision.
So thats what I am going to do.
posted by Laura @ 9:29 AM
2 Comments:
At January 09, 2006 11:23 AM,
life's a dream said…
You are the best friend you will ever have. You're right. It's time to trust yourself. You wouldn't let your best friend down, and so you won't let yourself down. Laura, we love you and think you're wonderful. I know sometimes things are confusing, and we're scared, and alone. But it's going to be okay. Remember I'm here for you. Far away in distance, but never in thought. I love you lots Laura, and I'm here if you need a friend.
At January 09, 2006 12:21 PM,
Laura said…
I love you too, and it makes me even more confident in myself because you beleive in me. Thank you. You don't know how much you have helped me.
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